Things Canadians Didn't Know: 14 Things You Should Never Do When Visiting Korea

Hello, canadatokorea.com readers! I was born in Korea but lived in the UK for a long time and have traveled extensively. I understand the cultural differences between Korea and the West better than anyone. Many people ask me for advice on what to be mindful of when visiting Korea. Today, I've compiled 14 actions to avoid in Korea compared to what may be acceptable in a Western culture like Canada. Of course, none of these are 100% absolute rules. However, if you want to respect the local culture and have a great trip without friction, these tips are essential!

1. Public Etiquette: PDA, Noise, and Unwanted Attention

Korea tends to be more conservative regarding public behavior. • Avoid Extreme Public Displays of Affection (PDA): Hugs or quick pecks are fine, but things like making out or groping in public, as you might see in Paris or London, are frowned upon. • Keep Quiet on Public Transport: Loudly talking or playing music on subways or buses is considered rude. Koreans typically keep to themselves, wearing earphones and minding their own business. • Catcalling is a Definite No: Catcalling—something occasionally seen in Western countries—is not normal in Korea and is regarded as highly impolite.

2. Respecting Space: Shoes, Seats, and Payment

Korean habits place high importance on the cleanliness and order of a space. • No Shoes Indoors or on Seats: You must never wear shoes inside homes or traditional buildings like Hanok. Also, unlike the NYC Subway, do not put your feet up on train seats or public benches. If you're invited inside, always expect to remove your shoes and wear provided slippers. • Do Not Sit in Priority Seating: The seats closest to the doors on trains are strictly reserved for the elderly or those with disabilities. Pink seats are reserved for pregnant women. Do not sit there unless you qualify. • Pay at the Counter (No Tipping!): After your meal, do not wait for the server to bring the bill to your table, as they do in London. In most Korean restaurants, you must go directly to the counter to pay and then leave. Tipping is not customary here.

3. Interpersonal Etiquette and Subtle Manners

Korean manners emphasize respect and deference, often differently than in the West. • Use Two Hands When Exchanging Items: It is very polite to use both hands when handing an item to someone or receiving one. Koreans will find it charming if a foreigner remembers to do this. • Just Bow, No Namaste: When greeting someone, simply perform a slight bow (or a handshake, occasionally); do not use the Namaste gesture, as this is not a Korean custom. • No Hugging Upon First Meeting: Do not hug strangers or new friends when introduced. A handshake is sometimes acceptable, but a bow is the standard. • Don't Be Offended by Age Questions: Do not take offense if someone asks your age almost immediately after your name. Korea’s age hierarchy system is critical for determining honorifics and how they address you.

4. Safety, Sensitive Issues, and Legal Matters

As a visitor, you must be aware of safety and cultural sensitivities. • Never Jaywalk: Unlike London or New York, where people cross on a red light if no cars are around, jaywalking is uncommon and discouraged in Korea. Always wait for the green light, no matter how empty the road is. • Avoid Dangerous/Reckless Behavior: Avoid "stupid stuff" like reckless skateboarding in public areas. Use common sense to avoid accidents that could injure yourself or locals, who may suffer PTSD from the shock. • Be Wary of Strangers' Approaches: If someone approaches you on the street offering a free fortune-reading or a club invitation, ignore them and keep walking. This is often a sign of attempted cult recruitment. • The Rising Sun Flag: Be aware that the Rising Sun Flag (Imperial War Flag) is a sensitive symbol related to Japanese colonial rule. Please ensure this design is not on your clothing or belongings, as some Koreans may find it highly disrespectful. • Modesty on Transport: While showing cleavage or wearing crop tops is common among young people in the summer, consider bringing a light covering for the train or bus, especially when there are elderly people present. Be professional in the workplace.